Reaching an Orgasm 2
The key to reaching an orgasm for a female is to totally relax and enjoy yourself with him. For some people you can masterbate by rubbing Your penis up and down also it helps if you fantisize about Breasts and what not this answer depends if your a male or female Masturbation A dick, finger or vibrator by the man doing work. amen To have an Orgasm he needs to Masturbate. Stimulating the Penis will make it erect, continuing will end in orgasm and maybe ejaculation, depending on how far into Puberty he is. For yourself: relax. For your partner: listen to their noises. Each person is different, so try to figure out what feels good to them. Once you two learn each other\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s bodies, orgasms will become easier and more frequent. Also, don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t be afraid to talk about it. females recieves orgasms when a penis is entered into the vagina, she will recieve a moment of great pleasure and excitemnt in sexual activity(a dick enter\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s the vagina moves about it,the woman recieves a great feeling and screams a bit)-that is an orgasm x Stroke and rub your vagina and especially the clit and labia. Nibble and pinch lightly on the nipples. DON\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'T start with putting anything inside. That is not necessary to make a woman come and actually feels better after the first orgasm. They only do that in porn and that is not real life. what i always do is get a pile of cushions, go on and put on a really loud video. then place a hairbrush under the first pillow, the handle sticking up, when the sounds start, hump your pile. this always works for me, i love it. my fav video is bent over the desk You 1) stick your tongue on her clit and 2) bang her till she screams! Then you have acomplished your goal :) how girls orgasm it preety easy.....you can also do it your self or with your lover....we gurls have \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\"g-spots\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\" so when you add pressure to it fills up with fluid so you have a feeling you really need to pee so when you have this feeling you have to push( and it feels so good with it flowing out of you.)(it will get messy though if you squrt like me...omg i remeber when i hit the wall a couple feet way from me) A good way is to try to hold it off a little bit, but not too much or else you will lose it entirely. And do Kegel-exercises. There are several ways to orgasm better. I assume this question was asked by a woman because men usually don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t have a problem with this. 1) Learn to do Kegel exercises and do them often. 2) Experimenting while masterbating is the best way to learn your body and what you like best. Get over any hangups you have about it and do it, with and without toys, and often. 3) Once you know what you like and don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t like, communicate with your partner and tell them what you want. If you are having trouble with orgasms during intercourse, ask your partner for oral on you until you orgasm, and then go to the intercourse. All three steps are crucial and required to improve orgasm. Also, if you and your lover read sex manuals together and can play, that helps too. == Answer == Relax and enjoy, don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t worry about having an orgasm and you probably will. If your a boy you run your hand up and down your penis. Women usually rub their genitals on the outside and especially the clitoris. By having a SHOWer..... Use a dildo a man sticks his head nice and hard in the vagina and then starts to lick it until it feels good Hold out for as long as humanly possible. If you start to feel tingling, try to control it and hold back until you can\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t anymore. get comfortable on your bed and explore your female parts gently with your fingers, find the spot that feels really good when you stimulate it, and massage it for awhile. You will find out that there is a female orgasm in there and it will come out. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\"Best\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\" means different things to different people. Therefore, you have to find out what feels best for you. There is no universal answer for this kind of question. finger urslef for a long time til u squirt After having a orgasm by fingering yourself for instance go for the G-spot. If it works tha orgasms keep coming as long as you put pressure on it. Jacking off == Answer == Rub a dub dub. Not very complicated, unless you have emotional blockage or sexuality issues. finger urself for a long time and squirt as much as u can it will hurt but after that its goin to be the best thing u ever felt It depends whether you mean through masturbation or sex? A lot of people cant orgasm from sex, but they can from masturbation and foreplay. Best way is practice just on yourself to find out which bits are most sensitive. try rubbing little circles over he top of the clit. once you learn how you like it then its easier to initiate sex to make you orgasm too Stroking, rubbing the clitoris and labia and vulva usually do the trick. Well, there are many options: 1) Get a boy/girl-friend that knows how to make you orgasm. 2) Buy a vibrator. These things can make almost every girl orgasm :> 3) Use your fingers, dildo or another object. Then play with your vagina, clitoris, and maybe other parts of your body. See what gives you pleasure and get better at it. You can also try using shower to get pleasure... that depends on the woman but typically a store bought (like at walmart) vibrator will really help. that and some serious finger action at the same time usually does the trick another thing to remember is stress or the inability to feel relaxed really reeks havoc on the ability to peak. normally feels good. inserting the penis into the vagina rapidly Touch yourself Down there Tickle yourself It will feel good thats right Oh Get a boyfriend 1. get naked 2. take your little guy and get a hard on 3. take your hand over your hard guy and start going up and down 4. you will feel something after you keep going don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t stop 5. you will orgasm and sperm will come out 6. clean it up and do it again later it sounds weird but if you eat lots of carbo hydrates before sex it ensures orgasms to last longer!! By stimulationg the clitoris through either directly rubing it or aplying subtle pressure to it -what ever feels best. Be passionate, naughty - a lot of a girls sexual pleasures come in her brain activity. You can indeed get her a bit wet just by doing this, then, start by maybe tease her clit by playing with it with your finger, be kind of fast, don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t do this for a long time(at first). Then, move your finger down into her vagina in one long motion, getting your finger wet with her vaginal mucus and start to rub her clit (try to keep it wet) up and down, side to side, and/or in circular motions. Pay attention to her reactions, like muscles flexing, maybe she starts to breathe harder, maybe she will let out little moans. See what she likes most and kind of experiment with her clit/vagina. Read more at the related link Every female is different. One thing they seem to have in common, is that they need both mental and physical stimulation to even be turned on. One word I cant stress enough is FOREPLAY . Touching, kissing, licking etc. Take your time. Also, most females cant reach orgasm through insertion alone. They need clitoral stimulation whether its by a partner or themselves. They also need to be comfortable, which is the whole mental thing. As you get to know each other, your chances of her achieving orgasm will increase. Good Luck! slowly rub your vagina in a circular motion. once this has been done for 5-10 min. insert your fingers slowly into your vagina. then you pretend as if your fingers a penis and put it in and take it out finger yourself down there or use a sex toy You orgasm during sex with clitoris stimulation watch... porn... lesbian... porn... it doesnt matter if your a boy or not, everyone thinks lesbian sex is HOT! plain and simple, masterbate or have sex. Masturbate or have sex. Ignore the last answer, to put your fi.. inside a woman\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s/girls vagina is uncomfortable for her and could hurt her. The best way to give a woman/girl an orgasm is to give lots of foreplay, kissing, hugging...playing with her tits, gently. Rubbing and gently squeezing her nipples, sucking her nipples...then move down and do the same to her clitoris. You will know when she is having/or had an orgasm and she will probably ask you to insert your penis into her vagina, so she can finish her orgasm with a sense that she will feel that you have made love to her. Having a quick orgasm (or any orgasm for that matter) usually relies on two things. The first is physical stimulation of the genital area. For women, that would be the labia majora and labia minora (inner and outer lips surrounding the vagina), the vagina itself and the clitoris. For men, it\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s the glans (head) of the penis and the surrounding tissue, especially on the underside (the perineum). When these areas are stimulated by rubbing, either by hand, mouth or through penetrative intercourse is the easiest way to orgasm. However, the second, more important aspect of \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\"coming\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\" quickly depends on the body\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s largest sex organ; your brain. If you\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'re stressed, feeling inhibited in any way (body issues, nervous, shy, etc.), don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t like the person you\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'re with, it will be hard to orgasm, and almost impossible to do so quickly. The answer to a quick orgasm lies with being comfortable. Being comfortable being naked, enjoying the person you are with, comfortable with your sexuality, being comfortable with what turns you on and focusing on those things. It\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s about letting go completely and enjoying the moment without any distractions. You can do it, if you give yourself permission to do so. Try oral sex or sticking your fingers in her vagina. If that does not work try sticking your penis in her. I presonally think oral sex works faster. I like it when my boyfriend sucks and kisses my vagina and clitoris. But ask her what she likes. It probably would be oral sex oh and try sucking on her breast I love that and make sure you rub, kiss,and lick her ALOT! I like it when my boyfriend sticks his fingers in my vagina it works fast but also the sucking works to. sucking feels better. If a person stimulates or has someone else stimulate the sexual organs especially the head of the penis in the case of a man or the clitoris in the case of a woman then eventually in most instances orgasm will take place. Women orgasm from their vagina men orgasm from their penis. I would also like to know the awnser to this. Stimulate the anus before and during the orgasm. Both female and males report more intense orgasms while the anus is played with, either fingers or an object such as a carrot or etc. == Answer == Have your partner give you oral sex while they have one finger in your anus and one finger in your vagina. == Answer == Have your partner give you oral while putting one finger in your anus and the other in your vagina. Get aroused. Whatever turns you on. ride on them non stop Lay back on there bed And rub there clit in circular motions or side to side it might take some girls a while then they start to move and rub really fast and get out of breathe some turn red and some moan For some women its very easy to orgasm. For some its a lot harder. Stimulation of the g spot and clitoris are key. From my experience some girls orgasm in minutes but the one im currently sexually active with it takes a lot to get her to orgasm. I must have full penetration and steady pace and must be constantly rubbing her clit to get her to climax. But to reach orgasm you have to stimulate those god spots :) the stimulation of a penis inserting your vagina can make you reach and orgasm. or you can rub your clitoris in circles to help you get aroused and then you might reach an orgasm that way. One other way would be to fold a pillow in half and sit on it, moving back and forth. Through their penis when they cant hold there semen any longer \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\"They basically explode (ejaculate)\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\" I only know the male way to get a powerful orgasm and not the women. The mens way is is to do the start and stop way were you either masturbate or penetrate the women till you feel like your going to ejaculate then stop and wait for a while the proceed this process a couple of times then when you feel like the time is right, let it go and you will have a very powerful orgasm ( depending in how many times you started and stopped). this may sound wierd but they way i have mine and i come in about a minute, is put ur rite hand facing down just below your vagina nd your left hand over it with your legs squeezed tight together and rub up and down Ok. First turn the woman on well by finding her own personal hot spots. NowAfter this keep going with oral and manual stimulation. Proceed with SEX!!! And use your penis to make her orgasm multiple times while alternating from foreplay to sex and repeat process afer each orgasm. Generally the very basics are: For most women two areas easily produce the best orgasms, first and the easiest is the \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\"Clitoral stimulation\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\" (care must be taken not to overwork this organ, it can become sore and tender). Second, the \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\"Vagina and famed G-spot\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\", women can have single or multiple orgasms. the Feeling U Have Befor You Burst Sperm Is A Male Orgasm Really there is no way. Everyone is differant. There are many differant ways. For men it is simple, but for women it can be a bit harder. 1. Get the finger beside your thumb and place it on your clitors. That is just at the top of your vagina. Now move your finger slowly to the right or left. (Only ot your first knuckle) now move it faster and faster, back and forth. You should reach an orgasm in about 5 minutes. hope this was help! Just your hand works amazingly for girls maybe an electric toothbrush or a vibrator. For men your hand works hold in everything for a long time and then let loose hitting thou G-spot man or woman? Well, being manipulated of course... Its not that hard. keep the object finger penis w.e u r using in while ur having a orgasm and ignore it. last alot longer All guys are different...age doesn\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t change that, but for most of us we orgasm through rapid strokes during masturbation. Remember that, in many respects, your maid\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s orgasm depends upon her emotions and feelings. It is possible to find advice to stimulate different spots of her body in internet... But don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t forget about her personality! Try to create a romantic, sentimental atmosphere around her! Her eyes and her soul are more important for orgasm than your sexual behaviour! Touch her EVERYWHERE. Check the site below for some real detailed answers: You touch, rub, feel, suck, lick, and use sex toys on her clitoris. stimulate clitorus The Best way for a guy to have an orgasm is pretty simple. Masturbation is the easiest, most convenient way to experience and orgasm. == Answer == By stimulation of the clitoris, which causes vaginal contractions and a wonderful tingly feeling all over the body. But remember the orgasm is better when not the result of just stimulation of the clitoris, there are many spots on a woman\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s body that can cause arosal! Such as the neck, thighs, toes, ear lobes, lips, thighs etc. An orgasm is a very intense experience and some woman can experience orgams without the stimualtion of the clitoris at all - or it is too intense touching it directly. It is all dependent on the woman all one has to do is a little bit of reaserch once you find out where women have the most nerve endingds youve hit the jackpot. It ca also happen after intense g-spot stimulation and if the woman has strong muscles and knows how to position herself. There a several ways a girl can reach orgasm. One is fi..... or fingering. To do this method, 1)gently rub your vagina with salive or water. If you\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'re a lesbian, you can have your partner lick your pussy. 2) make your hand flat or in a cup shape.3) insert your hand into pussy, twisting your hand back and forth until it\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s completely inside the vagina.4)find the g-spot.if you don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t know where that is, go to .5)rub this area continuously, maybe even push it some. This should let you reach orgasm. or 1)fi.. yourself intil you can feel the end of your vaginal wall 2)grab it and pull onit(or you could rub it if you want a more subtle orgasm) Generally with foreplay and/or stimulation, (assuming this is with a partner). Orgasms for women It happens at the peak of her arousal, a series of involuntary rhythmic rapid muscle contractions and spasms that start in the pelvic area and can spread to other parts of the body where muscles tighten, vaginal fluids enhance and your breathing quickens and intense tingling ensues. For most women two areas easily produce the best orgasms, first and the easiest is the \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\"Clitoral stimulation\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\" (care must be taken not to overwork this organ, it can become sore and tender). Second, the \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\"Vagina and famed G-spot\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\", women can have single or multiple orgasms. Giving orgasms can be achieved in various ways, in most cases Foreplay is a must, gentle fingers and a educated tongue, massages, endearing words and/or dirty talk, for some porn movies, you must remember all women are different and want the things that please them, learn and know what they are, then use some or all of these to heighten her Libido to give the \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\"Orgasm\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\" she desires. For Men: First, Don\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'t be in a hurry, go slow. Men for the most part are logical by nature, most become aroused by site, sounds and fragrance, learn what arouses him in these areas and your well on your way for setting the mood. Nakedness, teasing and kissing triggers his testosterone creating his sex drive, men\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s erogenous zones are generally in the groin and pelvic area, kissing, fondling, caressing and oral activities in these areas will heighten his passion and if you do more then one of these at a time it becomes \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\"Ultra-pleasurable\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\", but you need to know when to stop and what areas to concentrate on to avoid premature ejaculation, be creative, learn how to avoid the happy ending before it\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\'s proper time and place. The female orgasm is not an object to be found. It is a release of tension and a feeling of pleasure that is experienced.